Let’s start by stating the obvious – you can’t trick a man into proposing to you unless he really loves you. And even if there was, do you really want your marriage to be based on some trickery and not real feelings? Yeah, we thought so too. Now that that’s out of the way and we’re on the same page let’s talk about some things you can do to, perhaps, move things along quicker. Sure, you could probably just propose to him on your own, but a lot of us grew up with the idea that it’s the man’s job, so we’d prefer to plant the seed in his head, so to speak, and let the idea of marriage grow.
1. Mention It In Passing
Men don’t generally think about marriage on a daily basis. Sure, your partner might be head over heels in love with you, but that doesn’t automatically mean he’s planning your wedding in his dreams and waiting for the perfect moment to propose. Chances are he’s just living in the moment and enjoying his time with you. The idea of marriage might not even occur to him for years to come. So don’t just come out with “so when are you going to propose” out of the blue. But make sure he knows that that’s the end goal for you. Perhaps talk about your future and how you see it with him, mention friends and family that are married and how great their marriage is.
2. Be A Great Partner
A lot of men worry that marriage might ruin a relationship, but that’s just not true. If you have a good relationship, to begin with, then marriage doesn’t really change anything, it just makes your commitment to each other more official. So make sure he knows that you two make a great team. Use “we” to point out how well you two work together. Show him how well you compliment each other. Don’t fight about stupid things that don’t matter, and support him when he needs it.
3. Have A Good Relationship With His Family
You really need to make sure you’re on good terms with his family. Sure, marriage is the first step to creating your own little family, but it also means you’ll become part of his existing family and he’ll become a part of yours. So unless you’re dating an orphan you need to get along with his parents and siblings. If they like you, and you spend enough time with them, they’ll start thinking of you as family, and that’s exactly what you want. It’s much more likely he’ll propose if you’re close with his family, and you won’t even have to nag him, his family will do it for you. Pretty convenient, right?
4. Let Him Know How Much You Love Him
Do you love your boyfriend to the moon and back? Is he the best partner you’ve ever had? Is he incredibly thoughtful and caring? Does he make the best cup of coffee and the meanest lasagna in the world? Do you love how he always makes sure you’re not cold on a night out? TELL him. Sometimes we think men just know what we’re thinking, but they really can’t read our mind. So let him know how much you love and appreciate him and how perfectly he fits into your life.
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via Entertainment News
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