Women are emotional human beings and more often than not tend to go with the flow of those emotions against better judgement. Sometimes we are so deeply in love that we choose to believe everything is possible, when in reality, well, some things just never change (especially if that ‘thing’ is your boyfriend). We, girls, also have a tendency to get lost in our dreams about the relationships instead of being present in the moment and experiencing them. All these things can easily drive a guy away! Here are 7 classic mistakes women make with men.
Chasing after him
It is true that we live in a modern world when a woman can ask a man out and it’ll be alright (kind of), but for the majority of guys it’s still not okay, and if it is, well, that’s a red flag right there. There’s no harm in showing interest if you like the guy, but taking matters into your hands and doing all the action is something you should avoid at all costs. Deep down inside guys are still hunters, biologically wired to go after the things they want. So if a guy likes you, it’s natural for him to make the first step and let you know about it. But even if you stumble upon a shy one and after all your advances he still seems more polite than interested in dating you – then drop it, girl! Chasing after guys has never done anyone any good.
Thinking you can change/save him
No matter what trouble he’s bringing into your lives – it’s not for you to fix. Whether it’s some kind of addiction, lack of job, or simply a few gross habits that drive you crazy, don’t think for a minute that things will change once you move in together or get married. Sure, people do change when in love, but because they want it themselves. They are the ones that initiate the change. If he hasn’t asked for help before the two of you started dating or didn’t even try to improve his life, this means he’s good with the way things are. Think carefully before going in too deep with him.
Playing the relationship game
In the beginning of the relationship when it’s all fresh and new all we can think of is the other person. Yet somewhere in the process our focus may shift and we start enjoying the fact of being in a relationship more than the actual person we have built a connection with. You start thinking about what you should do as a couple, rather than caring about his wishes and needs. It’s almost impossible to build a meaningful connection while you’re simply playing the game of relationship. Forget all the stereotypes and focus on your real life bond that may be imperfect, but will definitely lead to something genuine.
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